The strange cycle of life,
sometimes it makes one feel really helpless. That moment when one feels like, ALRIGHT!
THIS IS IT…..I GIVE UP, IT IS FINISHED. That was the case of a young lady I met
during a tour to a distant community. I joined in a gathering and heard her
speak, her words were filled with so much love and hope, but narrating the
story of her life, inspired me to write about it.
She was told she had a
chronic disease by her family doctor and she just had three years to leave.
WHAT? She exclaimed, I DON’T DESERVE THIS!!!!......NO I DON’T, she concluded.
Believing she has nothing
to live for, she dragged her innocent family, friends and well-wishers into
her situation, so they could feel the wickedness she felt in the world, she was
filled with so much rage that could bring the world to a standstill. Oh! Wicked
world, she would say, I gave my all to you, trying to be a better person every
day of my life, I would help the sick, I would visit the needy, and I did
everything that is required of me by my religion. Today, I have been diagnosed
by the doctor and he said I just have 3 years to live, I don’t know how I got
here but I don’t plan to leave this world alone. NEVER! Filled with rage and
revenge, but who is she angry at? Who does she want to pay back…? The questions
she struggles with every day of her life……
She became really arrogant,
she would keep late nights and she would shout at her parents and whenever they
try to calm her down she would leave the house, and one day, she never
returned, she met with some group of confused kids; they would rob the bank,
and commit all sorts of atrocities never heard of since the inception of the
world.
One of the nights, they
came to this house to rob it off its treasures. They broke into the home which
was occupied by an old woman and her granddaughter, when they got in, they
molested the old woman, but whenever they tried to hit her granddaughter she
would throw herself in front of her granddaughter and they would hit and kick her,
it continued like that until they wanted to leave, and the little girl held the
hand of the lady and said to her “you
don’t have to end up like this”, the lady immediately pushed the little girl to the
ground and ran out of the house, she had noticed the abnormal temperature of
the child. She became restless; she couldn’t believe what her life had become.
In the wake of the morning,
she left really early to the house they had robbed late at night, she kept her
distance, waiting to see the next step the old woman and her granddaughter
would take, she couldn’t understand such unconditional love displayed by that
old woman last night when they tried to hit her granddaughter. At about 10am,
the little girl stepped out of her house looking so alive and peaceful like
nothing went wrong last night. She went to a gathering close to her house. She
goes there every day to encourage the community. People will gather to hear her
speak.
On the third day after the
incident, this lady went to their house again still keeping her distance, but
this time, she discovered a large crowd in front of the old woman’s house, when
she asked what had happened, she was told that the little girl had passed on
and they came to pay homage to her. The lady became really curious and
restless, she could not sleep, and her friends were starting to get pissed at
her for being obsessed with that old woman and her late daughter.
She summoned up the courage
to walk up to the old woman, and she enquired tirelessly about her
granddaughter that had passed on, at last, with a big smile on the face of the
old woman, she told the lady about the heroic life of the little girl. She
said, at the age of 4, the little girl lost her both parent to a ghastly car
accident. After which, the little girl was taken to the orphanage home where
she got adopted at the age of 7, she was maltreated and made to do hard labour
and all sorts of tedious work a girl her age can’t handle lest she would
breakdown. When the news came to her (the old woman) about the welfare of her
granddaughter 3years after, she carried out all the necessary legal procedures
to free her granddaughter from the hands of her monstrous adopted parent. Just
one year after the little girl started leaving with her grandmother, she fell
sick and was rushed to the hospital, and the doctor, after running several test
on the little girl, said the little is suffering from an incurable disease
which she might have obtained from God knows were and she only had 3 months to
live.
The old woman said, she was
worried and she would cry day and night and ask questions, but no answer was
provided. This little girl has suffered and now that she is free to live a
better life, she just has 3 months to enjoy it. The old woman cried. But the
little girl walked up to her, pat her on the back and said, “our lives is not ours, and it is not for
us to decide what is to be and what is not, neither is it for us to decide when
it is to be, let the supreme one worry about that”.
She was just 11years, the
old woman laments, and she thinks like an older me, I was amazed by the way she
saw life and how she took life so lightly, the old woman said.
The little girl started her
missionary mission, gathering crowd every 10am, inspiring them from the Bible
and the Qur’an, she talked on love, hope and believe;
She would say from the Bible,
“Love is patient and kind;
love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not
insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not
rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things,
believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” Oh, how
well she inspired the people of the community and myself with her words of hope
and love…..Oh, how well they were blessed, the old woman continued
She would say from the
Qur’an, talking about oneness, we have
appointed a law and a practice for every one of you. Had God willed, He would
have made you a single community, but He wanted to test you regarding what has
come to you. So compete with each other in doing good. Every one of you will
return to God and He will inform you regarding the things about which you
differed.” (Surat al-Ma’ida, 48)
Never stop trusting in that
which fills you with so much joy. Never stop believing. Never give up hope. The
little girl inspired a lot of people. She only had three months to live, she
was just 11years. But she didn’t care, she new she had a message to pass across;
she knew she needed to tell her story but she can’t leave long enough to tell
it so she gave others all they need, to tell the story. Oh! Oh!! Oh!!!, I miss
my little girl…..The old woman cried…..
The lady after hearing all
these, broke down, and shared her predicament with the old woman. How selfish?…she
still had three years to live, see all the havoc she had caused, see all the
people she had hurt…..OH! SHE SCREAMED, I have failed you little girl, I was
suppose to inspire you, but I hurt you, and you in turn inspired me. I am a
grown lady, I have seen life to the fullest, but you were just a little girl
with a terrible past, but none of that got to you, Oh how well furnished you
are in your heart. Thank you for bringing me back into the light.
From thence, this lady knew
she had to take a new turn, she knew she had a message to pass on. So she would
go to that exact spot were that little girl goes to everyday by 10am and
proclaim her words but this time with a story, a true life story. And the crowd
were the witnesses.
Here
is my take on this, Your situation might be that of the lady or
that of the little girl. No matter what you are going through, never feel or
think that your situation is worse. Nobody deserves to get hurt by the death of
their loved ones, nobody deserves to be told that he/she has few years to live,
it just happens, and that is yet another face of life with its mystery. It is
yet another tragic face of life, one must not hurt others because there is a
hole he/she lives with that cannot be covered up no matter how much they try.
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