Find Out What You Love In Your Spouse Before You Say I DO

 

"I love you, I just need you to trust my affection for you is genuine", the words of a guy trying to convince a lady, looking into his eyes you can tell that he is so innocent, NO he wouldn’t hurt you, at least that is what you tell yourself, you contemplate and ask yourself should I trust him, he is so loving and so true to his words, so you succumb to him, may be after 1 to 3 years in the relationship, he starts to give silly excuse, either you are a flirt or a hole,

"You are a hole, you let any guy into you, I express gratitude to God that I got the opportunity to make sense of it on time", that same guy will say same words to you when they become weary of you, because they got what they wanted from you, and they've realized that both of you are not compatible, so they assume and conclude in their head and wouldn’t give you a chance to prove them wrong.

Why does he give senseless reasons? Whatever happened to him proving his love for me is genuine?  Why does he not feel love for me any more? You ask yourself questions upon questions, and you cry, you are only in this bitter situation because you failed to ask him why he loves you? Why he is coming at you? You failed to question why he was so fixated on you. You failed to show him who you truly are, if a man can’t put up with your real self, then that man is not a solid match for you, but then, how could you have known? When you mask your genuine self from him.

A priest was giving his homily and he said, "When a gentleman tells you he loves you, ask him, what exactly do you love in me? Because it may be that the gentleman adores your thin look and if in the long run you both get hitched and you add weight, he gets appalled by your presence, or it might be that the fellow simply needs to get into your greenhouse and when he is finished with you he gets irritated by your presence or many other reasons yet unknown to the ladies, so ladies be inquisitive when a guy says those three words to you. 

We find in relational unions today, how couples despise on themselves that they wish one another dead, in light of the fact that they concealed their genuine nature from their life partner until they got hitched just for them to find that they can't endure the shrouded character or lifestyles of their life partner so they oppose one another.

True love is genuine though is not without faults, true love is unexplainable and is not attached to our desires. Before you tell a woman that you would kill for her, make sure to recognize what precisely you will kill for in her. Try not to deceive a woman and afterward abandon her just when she is really starting to like you. 

When you are not certain of you affections for a woman, you better not make the stride, likewise the women.